You Are An ESFJ.
Let's dig into how to make this work for you in love, career and life
ESFJs teach us beautiful lessons with their generosity of spirit
Of all the types, ESFJ is the most dedicated to the service of their friends, family and community.
Many other types feel this call to service, but for ESFJs, getting involved is utterly natural. 

At their best, they are the unmatched “Master of Ceremonies” and celebrated hosts.

Their friendly, next-door-neighbor manner typically makes them a social hub.

They have a genuine energy and openness that exudes outward to people around them.
"The Unacknowledged Struggles of the ESFJ Personality Type"
Do you find yourself meeting everyone's needs but your own?

ESFJs are very quick to help others, but struggle to ask for help themselves.

ESFJs face other challenges too:
  • ​ESFJ personalities are quick to bring people together and create harmony. But when family and friends fight, it can become a struggle to manage the discord.
  • ​ESFJs are open to other people's interests and easily carry on conversations about a wide range of topics. But if the same interest isn't returned, they can feel they don't matter to others.
  • ​ESFJs are natural caretakers, they instinctively know how to reach out to others and put others at ease. Sometimes, this may lead to them neglecting their own needs and wishes to look after other people’s.
  • ​ESFJs can be hard on themselves, and struggle with critical self-talk.
  • ​ESFJ are generous and open-hearted, more unscrupulous people may try to take advantage of their generosity and exploit them.
At Personality Hacker, we've worked with hundreds of ESFJs who have faced and overcome these challenges and others.

And today, we want to help you do the same.
“How ESFJs Win Big (or Lose Big) in Business, Romance, and LIFE"
The first step to hacking your personality to achieve massive growth and success in all areas of your life is understanding it.

Let's start with your four letters. What do they mean?
  • For you, the external world is the 'real world'. The real world for Introverted (I) types is the internal world.

  • You focus on what you observe with your 5+ senses. Intuitive (N) types focus on meaning and pattern recognition. 
  • You make decisions using personal criteria like human emotions and dynamics. Thinking (T) types prioritize impersonal criteria like data and metrics.

  • You prefer structure around you to free your mind and thoughts. Perceiving (P) types prefer freedom in the world around them and create structure internally.

You may already be familiar with the four letters above.

Most personality tests, articles, and websites spend a lot of time focused on the behaviors ESFJs show the world.

When it comes to personality types this is just the tip of the iceberg.

Ready to go deeper - past your behaviors - to see HOW your mind is wired?

Let's look into the actual mental wiring of your ESFJ mind.

The four letter code ESFJ gives us a key into the cognitive functions your mind uses to learn information and make decisions.

The easiest way to explain these is with "The Car Model".

Let’s pretend your mind is a four passenger vehicle.

These four ‘passengers' represent four distinct mental processes which influence you the most.

Here is how they're arranged:
In the front seat you have the Driver. This is the most developed function of your personality. You spend most of your time here naturally because it puts you into flow.

Next, there's the Co-Pilot. This is your second strongest function which supports your Driver and is very important for you to develop to achieve growth.

Behind this, there's the 10 Year Old. This function shows up with the maturity of a 10 Year old. While important, without working on it this can become your go-to Defensive Position.

Finally, there's the 3 Year Old. This is your least mature function. Its influence over you is unconscious and yet is often the source of your life's aspiration.
"Inside the Mind of the ESFJ: Your Four Cognitive Functions"
YOUR Driver is Extraverted Feeling
(Nickname: "Harmony")

Harmony has a sophisticated understanding of the dynamic relationship between people. This is what ESFJs have determined is the most important thing.
YOUR 3 Year Old is Introverted Thinking 
(Nickname: "Accuracy").

At the 3 yr old position it still has the desire for logic, but it becomes internally focused. It creates data, bastardizes it and turns it into a weapon to use upon oneself. Inner critic.
YOUR Co-Pilot is Introverted Sensing
(Nickname: "Memory") 

The more you get into that copilot process the more you give other people grace and chill out. Really mature ESFJs are morale boosters and they remove the judgmental component.

YOUR 10 Year Old is Extraverted Intuition 
(Nickname: "Exploration") 

If an ESFJ is in the space where they find themselves driven to novelty, or you are speculating too much about people, they are spending too much time in their 10 year old function.
Here's What Your Functions Look Like using the Car Model:
Deep dive into cognitive functions to discover how your mind is wired.
Gain powerful and applicable insights to craft a personal development path tailored to you.
Bring your optimized self as a true partner in your relationships and become self-determined in your career.
"Three Things You Can Do Today to Reach Epic Levels Of Growth"
First, starting today, you need to dedicate careful time and attention to developing your co-pilot function of Introverted Sensing ("Memory").

This is the #1 thing you can do to grow right now.

Without a strong co-pilot, you're going to stay stuck in the same place with the same old challenges.

Second, you need to become aware of your 10 Year Old Extraverted Intuition ("Exploration") and how it hijacks your personality, steering you away from where you actually want to go.

Developing strategies for dealing with this, and getting yourself back on track is essential to success.

Third, your 3 Year Old Introverted Thinking ("Accuracy") needs attention too. Learn how to give your 3 Year Old function what it needs to keep you safe, healthy, and on the right track.

If you ignore your 3 Year Old it will find unhealthy ways to get your attention.

Now we've got some good news and bad news.

The good news is that some people naturally learn to do all three of these over a lifetime.

The bad news is that even for them this can take years and years of pain, frustration, and missed opportunities before they figure it out.

Fortunately at Personality Hacker, we have developed a shortcut.

We've assisted hundreds of ESFJs in developing their personality. We want to work with you too.

Imagine becoming the best possible version of an ESFJ.

We created a specific, highly detailed home study personality development owners manual that we want to show you today:

"ESFJ Owners Manual"

The ESFJ Owners Manual is a guided experience to help you understand your personality type and unlock your full potential.

Unlock Your Natural Path To Wealth, Flow & Fulfillment...

The ESFJ Owners Manual hands you the "cheat code" of your personality type and unlocks your full potential. 

  • 16 pages of accurate, personal insights
  • ​5-Week Syllabus & Course
  • ​7 Videos
  • ​6 Audio Recordings
  • ​3 Workbooks
  • ​2 "About Me" Guides (For Boss & Partner)
  • ​BONUS: Side-By-Side Romantic Type Pairs
  • ​BONUS: Transcending Type Workshop


ESFJ Type Fundamentals

In this module we are going to start unpacking your ESFJ personality in greater detail. Let's start with an overview of your type and then begin zooming in to identify four styles of ESFJs. Next, you will learn about the dichotomies and dive deeper into your "Car Model" - a framework for understanding what is technically called your cognitive function stack. Finally, we end this module with a discussion about some of the specific challenges you face in the world as an ESFJ.

In This Module:

  • ESFJ Personality Type Overview: Learn about the traits, tendencies, and preferences of the ESFJ personality type in this comprehensive video overview.
  • The 4 Styles of The ESFJ Personality: Discover the four unique styles of the ESFJ personality and gain insight into how they impact your life and relationships.
  • Understanding The 4 Letters ESFJ: Explore the dichotomies that define the ESFJ personality type and learn how they shape your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
  • The ESFJ Car Model: Get a visual explanation of how the different parts of your personality work together (or sometimes against each other) with this fun, animated presentation on the ESFJ Car Model.
  • ESFJ Type Specific Challenges: Explore the common challenges that the ESFJ personality type faces in life and learn how to overcome them.


Finding Flow With Your Personality

Finding and maintaining flow for your life can make or break your success in the world. When you are in flow you still face challenges, but your life is setup so it works WITH your natural personality and style, not against it. In this module we are going to define and explain flow, show you how to find flow with all four parts of your car model, and overcome any challenges or obstacles that might be in your way.

In This Module:

  • Using Personality To Find Flow: Discover how to use your personality type to find flow in your work, relationships, and everyday life.
  • Finding Flow As An ESFJ: A detailed explanation of how to use all four cognitive functions to achieve flow and improve your life as an ESFJ.
  • ​Overcoming ESFJ Challenges to Flow: Learn how to overcome the challenges that can hold you back from finding flow as an ESFJ and achieving your goals.


Navigating Personality Blind Spots: Loops & Grips

As you go about navigating your ESFJ personal growth journey, some of the biggest challenges will come from what are called "loops" and "grips." In this module we are going to explain loops and grips, identify three styles of each, and give you a practical action plan to avoid or overcome these obstacles when they rear their ugly head.

In This Module:

  • Personality Loops & Grips Explained: Understand the loops and grips that can hold you back as an ESFJ, and learn how to identify and overcome them.
  • 3 Styles of ESFJ Loops: Discover the three types of loops that can impact the ESFJ personality type and how to avoid getting stuck in them.
  • ​3 Styles of ESFJ Grips: Explore the three types of grips that can impact the ESFJ personality type and learn how to overcome them.


ESFJ Fixations

We are going to focus on your ESFJ personality fixation for creating and maintaining a sense of control in your life. Different personality types have different control fixations based on their cognitive functions. In this module we will show you an overview of control fixations for all personalities, the one that you use specifically as an ESFJ, and action steps to overcome it.

In This Module:

  • ESFJ Fixation Explained: Learn about the FIRM fixation of invulnerability and how it can affect the ESFJ personality type.
  • FIRM Fixation: Invulnerability: Understand the FIRM fixation of invulnerability and how to address it as an ESFJ.


ESFJ Toolbox

In this module we outline specific "Tools Of Action" and steps you can begin taking in your life to grow yourself as an ESFJ. Each of the tools in this toolbox is created from years of coaching and working with ESFJs helping them find practical and actionable changes to grow and develop. Spend time understanding each tool and be sure to actually do the exercises. ESFJs that we've coached have seen massive personal growth from implementing the techniques and strategies we suggest.

In This Module:

  • Tool - ESFJ Finding Flow: Use this tool to help you get into flow quickly and consistently and improve your productivity and happiness.
  • Tool - ESFJ Developing Your Co-Pilot: This tool is designed to help you develop the Co-Pilot (auxiliary) cognitive function in your personality.
  • ​Tool - Honoring Your 3-Year-Old: This tool is designed to help you honor your 3-Year-Old (inferior) cognitive function in your personality.
  • Tool - Crafting A Vision For Your Ideal Day: This tool is designed to help you create a vision for the ideal day-to-day experience of your life.

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Transcending Type Training

Knowing your type is a powerful tool. The most powerful tools must be used responsibly. A hammer can help build a house or bludgeon someone to death. This bonus training guides you to the best and most healthy relationship you can have with your personality type, and reminds you to always use your understanding for building yourself up, never bludgeoning yourself (or others).

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"Introducing... The Ultimate Personality Hack for ESFJs"

Unlock Your Natural Path To Wealth, Flow & Fulfillment...

The ESFJ Owners Manual hands you the "cheat code" of your personality type and unlocks your full potential. 

  • 16 pages of accurate, personal insights
  • ​5-Week Syllabus & Course
  • ​7 Videos
  • ​6 Audio Recordings
  • ​3 Workbooks
  • ​2 "About Me" Guides (For Boss & Partner)
  • ​BONUS: Side-By-Side Romantic Type Pairs
  • ​BONUS: Transcending Type Workshop
What Your ESFJ Personality Development Owners Manual Will Do For You:

Stop inner emotional turmoil from wrecking your productivity and happiness

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How to avoid the top 3 energy drains for your ESFJ type and how to manage stress

Discover your business "power partner" who compliments your strengths & weaknesses and can drive each other toward career and financial success

Shine a bright light on your blind-spot and stop it from tripping you up

Yes - you are different! Finally be able to explain to others how your mind works

Do the single most important thing you can do for your personality type to advance your goals and achieve success

Joel Mark Witt & Antonia Dodge
Owners, Personality Hacker
Created By Two Personal Growth Teachers Joel Mark Witt & Antonia Dodge
This Owners Manual is designed by two personal growth teachers who credit much of their own success to the techniques you're about to learn. They each bring their unique skills into this program. 

As a teenager, Antonia Dodge began studying personality types to understand how people tick and learn how to connect and relate to others. The results changed her life and she was hooked. Years later, she's developed and co-developed over 10 personal growth programs, coaches others in how to understand their personality and find the right personal growth path tailored to them.

Joel Mark Witt is a digital media entrepreneur with over two decades of business experience. His life changed when he truly understood that his personality was wired to give back to the world in a big way. He immediately gave himself permission to be his authentic self - quit his day job - and helped build Personality Hacker into a growing movement.

In this Personality Development Owners Manual, Joel & Antonia show you the concrete structure and frameworks that power the mental wiring of your mind and the daily practices needed for personal growth.
A System Backed by Science and Research
Author, Former UCLA professor, and personality typology expert Dario Nardi, has been doing research on the neuroscience of personality. His work with EEG machines and brain wave scans have indicated that the once soft science of personality typology can actually be measured in brainwave activity.
Here's What Comes In The Personality Development Owners Manual
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  • ​5-Week Syllabus & Course
  • ​7 Videos
  • ​6 Audio Recordings
  • ​3 Workbooks
  • ​2 "About Me" Guides (For Boss & Partner)
  • ​BONUS: Side-By-Side Romantic Type Pairs
  • ​BONUS: Transcending Type Workshop
You're in good company! Do you know these famous ESFJs?
Jennifer Aniston
Actress, Producer, Businesswoman
Sarah Jessica Parker
Actress, Producer, Designer
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TV presenter, Singer, Author
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